☯grunge // advice blog☯
yes I like girls & I'm lucky enough to have my beautiful girlfriend, Lizzie!
I can’t wait for it to start getting really cold! I’m not cut out for all these summer clothes.
I love making my baby’s birthday present, makes me so happy 🙊😍
There comes a time in life when you let go of stupid thoughts, pointless worrying & the fear of being judged by people that play pretty meaningless parts in your life, some even strangers! That whole process has only just happened for me recently, I always remember being absolutely consumed by the worry of what others thought about me and wanting them to like me.
Since I came out & managed to find myself the most lovely, caring & beautiful girlfriend there could be I have changed so much. It may sound extreme, but I feel like a completely different person! I smile more, I have little worry for what others think about me and most importantly I’ve learned to appreciate myself and being in love. If I care & love someone, I will care & love for them deeply, not half heartedly. I guess you could say I wear my heart on my sleeve, although that isn’t always a good thing.
I was in a very dark place, for a very long time, sometimes even resulting in me being taken to hospital. I’ve found a whole new love for life, call me cliche and a little cheesy! I know you shouldn’t rely on someone else for your own happiness, which I don’t but having someone as utterly amazing as my girlfriend has certainly helped put a smile on my face since the day we met. I don’t know why I wrote this blog post, I guess you could say it was just a little reminder to myself at how lucky I have things right now & I hope so much it stays this way. ✌️
Being able to find someone you click with so naturally is the best feeling ever. You feel like you’ve been best friends your whole life, it feels like you’re coming home. You’re so comfortable with them. Maybe that’s what a soulmate is. Not someone who shares every single thing in common with you, but someone who feels like home.
Nothing that I hate more than people saying I’m ‘pretending’ to be gay or saying ‘you aren’t really a lesbian” just because I don’t fit the stereotypical, judgemental image they portray in their small minded heads of what a lesbian should ‘look like’. Assholes! I didn’t know I had to look a certain way to like girls 🙉🙈
Personally I wouldn’t say she’s lucky, she puts up with a lot from me 🙈 if anything I’m the lucky one!